A modern handbook for managers who want to lead with confidence and transform teams — without burning out
Your days are packed with back-to-back meetings and urgent fires
You’re constantly solving problems for your team instead of developing them
You avoid hard conversations because they feel draining, or you’re unsure how to approach them
You second-guess your decisions, even though you’ve earned your position
You want to be a confident, people-first leader… but no one ever gave you the tools
Or you’re an HR professional who genuinely cares about building people-first leaders.
Lead with more intention and less stress
Empower your team instead of carrying the weight alone
Create a culture of accountability, clarity, and trust
Finally feel confident in how you show up as a leader
You're expected to manage performance, coach your team, handle conflict, and navigate nonstop change — all while leading with calm, clarity, and emotional intelligence.
I’ve spent the last 17 years coaching and training thousands of leaders across industries — from credit unions and manufacturers to high-growth companies. And what I’ve seen again and again is this:
Most managers were promoted to leadership because they were strong performers — not because they were "natural leaders".
Reacting instead of leading
Doing the work instead of delegating it
You avoid hard conversations because they feel draining, or you’re unsure how to approach them
Avoiding hard conversations because they feel awkward or unproductive
Feeling like you’re spinning your wheels, but never quite getting ahead
Add in Zoom fatigue, burnout, back-to-back meetings, and unrealistic expectations... and it’s no wonder leadership feels overwhelming.
Reacting instead of leading
Doing the work instead of delegating it
You avoid hard conversations because they feel draining, or you’re unsure how to approach them
Avoiding hard conversations because they feel awkward or unproductive
Feeling like you’re spinning your wheels, but never quite getting ahead
Add in Zoom fatigue, burnout, back-to-back meetings, and unrealistic expectations... and it’s no wonder leadership feels overwhelming.
It's a practical, modern guide for managers ready to lead with confidence and foster teams that collaborate, perform, and thrive.
How to confidently coach your employees through constant change and harness their untapped potential.
The art of intentional leadership with a new-found focus and energy.
How to navigate tough conversations with grace, confidence, and skill.
Techniques to fully engage your employees so they operate at peak performance (and enjoy the ripple effect as your team's productivity soars).
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This will help if you’re still leading the way you were taught — or trying to navigate new expectations with outdated tools.
Today’s workplace has changed but too many leaders are still managing like it’s the year 2000. This chapter breaks down why traditional leadership approaches (think: command and control, putting out fires, pulled into the weeds) no longer motivate modern teams, and what to do instead.
This will help if you’re unsure whether leadership is the right path — or struggling to support someone who isn’t thriving in a leadership role.
Maybe leadership was your “next step” but no one ever taught you how to actually lead. This chapter challenges the assumption that every high performer should become a manager and lays out what great leadership really requires.
This will help if you feel stuck, and don’t know what’s getting in your way
This chapter reveals the six patterns that could be sabotaging your leadership (like conflict avoidance, lack of delegation, and four more). You’ll learn how to recognize which ones are holding you back, and how to shift out of them.
This will help if you’re stuck in surface-level tactics and need a clear framework to lead with purpose
Learn Laurie’s signature model for modern leadership — one that prioritizes well-being, intention, and results — and how to integrate them into your daily actions to create real impact.
This will help if your day always feels hijacked by other people’s priorities
This chapter teaches you how to shift from “busy” to purposeful using real-world strategies for focus, planning, and intentional decision-making.
This will help if you’re burned out and don’t know how to change it
You can’t lead well when you’re running on empty. This chapter offers a compassionate and practical guide to protecting your time, setting boundaries, and building a culture that supports energy and wellness — both yours and your team’s.
This will help if you’re constantly busy but never feel like you’re moving forward
This chapter pushes back on the cultural fixation with hustle and shows why reflection is the secret edge most leaders are missing. You’ll gain tools to think strategically, plan effectively, and lead with clarity—even when your calendar is full.
This will help if you’ve ever wondered why your team holds back around you
Self-awareness isn’t a soft skill, it’s an essential one. This chapter unpacks how a lack of self-awareness damages trust and performance, and offers practical tools to help you better understand your emotional triggers, blind spots, and leadership impact.
This will help if you’re always exhausted, even when you love your work
Learn how to replenish your personal energy, fuel high performance, and bring presence and motivation to every interaction, using Laurie’s Energy Leadership Framework.
This will help if your team is busy, but nothing’s actually getting done
When priorities aren’t clear, everything feels urgent. This chapter shows you how to get laser-focused on what matters most, structure your time around high-impact work, and lead your team with clarity, confidence, and purpose.
This will help if your team feels disconnected or unmotivated
Culture doesn’t happen by accident — if you’re not intentional about it, you risk leading a team that’s disengaged, disconnected, and underperforming. This chapter shows you how to foster a high-trust, high-engagement culture through genuine connection, purposeful 1:1s, meaningful coaching, feedback, and psychological safety.
This will help if you're still chasing people down to get things done
You don’t need to control everything to get great results. This chapter helps you build a culture of ownership and follow-through. You’ll learn how to shift from being the fixer to becoming a facilitator — someone who creates structure, models accountability, and empowers people to take real responsibility for their work.
Knows exactly where to focus, and isn’t pulled in a hundred directions every day.
Holds boundaries without guilt, respectfully says no when needed, and still delivers powerful results.
Confidently coaches others through performance challenges with clarity, empathy, and accountability.
Facilitates results through clear expectations, trust, and effective delegation.
Holds intentional 1:1s, runs productive meetings, and gets the best out of your team.
Models accountability, shows up with presence, and leads with energy instead of exhaustion.
Laurie Maddalena is a nationally recognized leadership expert, keynote speaker, and executive coach.
By the age of 30, she was Vice President of HR and Organizational Development. That position became the springboard for launching her own leadership consultancy, and for the past 17 years, she’s been on a mission to change the way we lead at work.
Laurie has trained thousands of managers and executives across industries, spoken on international stages, and collaborated with thought leaders including Brené Brown and Jack Canfield.
Through her workshops, coaching, and now The Elevated Leader, she helps managers break free from outdated management practices — and instead lead with clarity, energy, and purpose.
She lives in Maryland with her husband, Rino, and their three children, Olivia, Luca, and Clara.